People.com Entertainment TV Zooey Deschanel and Jacob Pechenik Split After 4 Years of Marriage: We're 'Better Off as Friends' The exes share daughter Elsie and son Charlie By Aurelie Corinthios and Liz McNeil Published on September 6, 2019 03:12 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Photo: Barry King/Getty Zooey Deschanel and Jacob Pechenik have called it quits. The New Girl star and her producer husband announced their split Friday after over four years of marriage. “After much discussion and a long period of contemplation we have decided we are better off as friends, business partners and co-parents rather than life partners,” a rep for the couple told PEOPLE in a joint statement. “We remain committed to our business, our values and most of all our children. Thank you for respecting our privacy at this time.” Deschanel, 39, and Pechenik, 47, met on set of the Bill Murray comedy Rock the Kasbah. They confirmed their engagement in January 2015 and got married that summer, around the same time they welcomed their first child, daughter Elsie, in July. In addition to Elsie, now 4, they share son Charlie, 2. Zooey Deschanel and Joseph Gordon-Levitt Celebrate the 10-Year Anniversary of (500) Days of Summer Speaking to PEOPLE earlier this year, Deschanel opened up about her life as a mom, noting that she has never shown her kids any of her work and that she and Pechenik “don’t do the TV thing” with them. “To them, I’m just Mom,” she explained. “They don’t really watch TV, anyway. They don’t watch anything. It’s basically books and coloring books and toys and stuff.” Deschanel was previously married to Ben Gibbard, the lead singer of Death Cab For Cutie. HollywoodLife first reported the split.