Entertainment TV 'Southern Charm' 's Ashley Jacobs 'Never Cheated' on Thomas Ravenel: 'He's Trying To Get a Reaction' "When he saw that I was out with friends, he got angry and made assumptions I was dating other guys," Ashley Jacobs tells PEOPLE about ex Thomas Ravenel By Dave Quinn Dave Quinn Instagram Twitter Dave Quinn is an Editor for PEOPLE, working across a number of verticals including the Entertainment, Lifestyle and News teams. He joined in 2006 as a Writer/Reporter where he became known for his Bravo and Broadway exclusives across print and digital. Dave is the author of the No. 1 New York Times best-selling book, Not All Diamonds and Rosé: The Inside Story of the Real Housewives from the People Who Lived It. He's appeared on many broadcasts including ABC's Good Morning America, Bravo's Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen, E!'s Daily Pop, NBC's New York Live and PEOPLE's own Reality Check, as well as a number of podcasts like Bitch Sesh, Everything Iconic, Watch What Crappens, Hot Off the Mess, Mention It All, and PEOPLE Every Day. Prior to working at PEOPLE, Dave was the chief Theater Reporter for NBC New York and co-host of Entertainment Weekly's acclaimed TV Recaps series. People Editorial Guidelines Published on August 27, 2018 06:26 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Photo: Paul Cheney/Bravo After Thomas Ravenel tweeted claims that she cheated on him, Ashley Jacobs is firing back at her ex. “I never cheated on Thomas,” Jacobs, 33, tells PEOPLE, explaining she only started putting herself out there again romantically after their recent split following over a year of dating the Southern Charm star. “We had agreed to go our separate ways, and I told him I wanted to see other people. When he saw that I was out with friends, he got angry and made assumptions that I was dating other guys. And when he confronted me about it, I blocked him because it wasn’t worth my energy. It’s toxic and unhealthy. So he went on a tweet storm,” she says. On Saturday evening, Ravenel made his Twitter account public, writing, “Today, my personal life just took a huge upward turn. I finally have more than enough information to move forward without any doubt or hesitation and I’ll never look back.” Southern Charm‘s Ashley Jacobs Admits ‘I Made a Lot of Mistakes’ with Ex Thomas Ravenel And alleging that Jacobs was unfaithful. “After 30 years I finally understand the lyrics from that wonderful Chicago tune: If she would have been faithful, if she could have been true, then I would have been cheated, I would have never known real love,” he wrote it in a follow-up tweet. “He’s very impulsive and he’s not thinking,” Jacobs responds. “Thomas is very traditional. He’s all about loyalty and honesty … and he just wanted a reaction. And my reaction was, ‘Typical, standard. Make an ass out of yourself. Keep doing it buddy. At this point, you’re only making it that much easier for me. I’m embarrassed for you that you have to go on Twitter at 56 years old.’ ” Southern Charm Cast Was ‘Disgusted’ with Thomas Ravenel, Cut Off Contact Before He Quit: Source Paul Cheney/Bravo As for how she is feeling now, Jacobs says, “I feel betrayed. I’m so disappointed,” adding: “To put stories there that [I’ve been unfaithful] – especially with what’s going on right now, that there’s allegations he hasn’t been cleared from, he should know better. I’m going to defend my character. I’m going to defend my reputation.” Ravenel also responded to a fan on Twitter who asked about his new single status. “Ready to mingle!” the father of two wrote. RELATED VIDEO: Southern Charm’s Ashley Jacobs Posts About ‘Difficult Roads’ Amid Thomas Ravenel Breakup Rumors On Aug. 15, Jacobs revealed in a teary Instagram Live that she and Ravenel had gone separate ways. “You guys know some eligible bachelors, hook me up. They don’t have to have money. I’m okay with that,” she said. “I just want someone to love me for me. It’s never been about money. Like I said, I work hard. I wouldn’t quit my job. I drive me cute little Honda. I’m okay.” The video came more than a week after reports swirled that the pair, who met in early May 2017, had broken up following the season 5 reunion and after the two deleted all photos of each other from their respective Instagram accounts.