Southern Charm Alum Cameran Eubanks to Release Memoir, One Day You'll Thank Me — See the Cover

Cameran Eubanks is getting real.

The former Southern Charm star, 36, has written a new book about dating, motherhood and all of life's messiest moments titled One Day You'll Thank Me, PEOPLE can exclusively announce.

The memoir, which will be a collection of essays, touches on her foray into reality television and gives her candid and honest takes on relationships and parenthood. Eubanks shares 3-year-old daughter Palmer Corrine with husband Jason Wimberly.

"Nothing brings me more joy than being a mom. However, motherhood is also by far the hardest thing I have ever done. Ever," Eubanks, 36, tells PEOPLE. "One reason I wrote this book was that I didn't connect with the flawless parenting images I saw on social media. For me, they could not have been further from the truth."

The reality star says she wants One Day You'll Thank Me to serve as a reminder that just because something in life isn't "Instagram-worthy," doesn't make it wrong.

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"I feel like many women don't talk about what you really go through as a new mom. Perhaps it's because they don't want to be labeled as depressed, admit that they didn't have this Instagram-worthy experience or seem like they don't have their act together," she says. "Well, I'm happy to admit it. In fact, it's normal. I had some depression. My experience wasn't Instagram-worthy and no, I didn't have my act together. Hardly."

She continues, "I wanted to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the milk-leaking, pee-in-my pants, when-can-I-drop-her-at-daycare truth. But I also wanted to assure readers that you will be okay!"

Eubanks starred in Bravo's Southern Charm for six seasons before announcing her exit in May.

One Day You'll Thank Me hits bookstands on Feb. 2, 2021.