You’ve met the cast of The Real Housewives of New Jersey, now see them in action!

In a new clip from, Danielle Staub (the Housewife who prides herself as one of the first female American Express Black card members in New Jersey) is getting ready for a date and is consulting pals Jacqueline Laurita and Teresa Giudice about the perfect outfit. “What do you wear for someone that the whole relationship has been phone sex?” she asks.

The guy, who she knows only as “Gucci Model,” is someone she met on the Internet.

“That’s crazy,” Jacqueline says.

Adds Teresa: “You don’t know his name? He sounds like a psycho to me.”

The Real Housewives of New Jersey premieres May 12 (11 p.m. ET) on Bravo.

A second clip that follows shows Caroline Manzo‘s sons Christopher and Albie discussing their career plans. Albie is headed to law school while Christopher says he would like to be “the face of strip clubs and car washes.”