Ramona Singer Opens Up About Mario's Affair: 'He Turned 60 and His Whole Character Changed'
"The person Mario is right now standing in front of me is not the person he was three years ago"
Ramona Singer thought she had it all: the perfect husband, the perfect daughter and the perfect career.
But when she learned that her husband of 22 years was having an affair, everything changed – drastically.
Looking back, Singer, 58, tells PEOPLE that she can now see the gradual change in her husband’s behavior that eventually led to his well-documented affair.
She says she started to notice Mario slowly slipping into the background. He wasn’t as involved in the RHONY craze as he once was, and when Singer started preparing their daughter, Avery, for college, he didn’t get involved. Around the time he turned 60, Singer says she barely recognized the man she married.
“The person Mario is right now standing in front of me is not the person he was three years ago,” she told PEOPLE.
At first, Singer thought he might just be having a midlife crisis, but when Mario’s actions came to light, she realized his troubles ran much deeper.
“Hes always had sometimes this negative energy and I would push him to be more positive, but after a certain point how much can I push him?” says Singer. “I couldn’t fix him.”
“He’s not happy. He’s just not happy as a person.”
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