Entertainment TV Keegan-Michael Key Talks Adoption, Fear of Abandonment and His 'People-Pleasing Issue' The Emmy-winning comedian reflects on his adoption experience while exploring the Icelandic lava fields on Running Wild with Bear Grylls By Glenn Garner Glenn Garner Instagram Twitter Glenn Garner is a Writer/Reporter who works heavily with PEOPLE's Movies and TV verticals. Since graduating from Northern Arizona University with a dual major in journalism and photography, he got his professional start at OUT Magazine, The Advocate and Teen Vogue, and he's since consistently kept his finger on the pulse of the LGBTQ community. His first book The Guncle Guide was released in 2020 and was featured on Katie Couric's list of 100 recommended books of the year. People Editorial Guidelines Published on April 26, 2021 03:05 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Keegan-Michael Key is opening up about how his adoption experience has shaped him into the person he is today. The Emmy-winning comedian gets deep about his fear of being "abandoned again" in PEOPLE's exclusive sneak peek at Monday's episode of Running Wild with Bear Grylls. "I have a people-pleasing issue," he tells Grylls, who is attempting to help him overcome his fear of spiders in the Icelandic lava fields. "I do think it comes from being adopted," Key continues. "I think people who are adopted have this kind of situation where you go, 'I'm going to do everything everybody else tells me, because I don't want to get abandoned again.' I think that happens to people." Meryl Streep Jokes She's 'a Little Bit in Love' with Her The Prom Costar Keegan-Michael Key National Geographic Key, 50, grew up knowing he was adopted. "It was something my parents had always told me," he says. "I think they were trying to make me feel special. Like, 'Hey, we picked you, and you're special.'" "Sometimes in the reinforcement of that, what happens is you're just telling me I'm different," he continues. "And there's two ways to look at different. Different is either, 'I'm different, and I'm special,' or, 'I'm different, and I'm worse than everybody else.' So I do believe that's where that comes from, that sense of wanting to please." This Is Us' Lyric Ross Advocates for Foster Families to Help Kids Like Her Character Find 'Loving' Homes Key has spoken about his adoption before, telling The New York Times in February that it's "not a surprise at all" that he got into comedy given how dedicated he was to entertaining his parents when he was a kid. "I'm adopted; so to say that I spent a lot of time trying to get my parents' approval is kind of an understatement," he said. "I've been acting since I was born, you know what I mean? I've been putting my tap shoes on for people's approval for a long time." The Key & Peele star also revealed to The New Yorker in 2015 that he'd reunited with his biological mother, Carrie Herr, and found out he had several siblings. "I literally went to bed one day with one sibling and woke up the next morning with seven," he said at the time. Catch Key's appearance on Running Wild with Bear Grylls, which airs Monday on National Geographic at 9 p.m. ET.