People.com Entertainment TV Jon Gosselin Doesn't Have Contact with Most of His Kids: They 'Aren't Talking to Me' "If they don't want to talk to me, that's fine, as long as they keep up with their sibling connections," Gosselin says By Dave Quinn Dave Quinn Instagram Twitter Dave Quinn is an Editor for PEOPLE, working across a number of verticals including the Entertainment, Lifestyle and News teams. He joined in 2006 as a Writer/Reporter where he became known for his Bravo and Broadway exclusives across print and digital. Dave is the author of the No. 1 New York Times best-selling book, Not All Diamonds and Rosé: The Inside Story of the Real Housewives from the People Who Lived It. He's appeared on many broadcasts including ABC's Good Morning America, Bravo's Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen, E!'s Daily Pop, NBC's New York Live and PEOPLE's own Reality Check, as well as a number of podcasts like Bitch Sesh, Everything Iconic, Watch What Crappens, Hot Off the Mess, Mention It All, and PEOPLE Every Day. Prior to working at PEOPLE, Dave was the chief Theater Reporter for NBC New York and co-host of Entertainment Weekly's acclaimed TV Recaps series. People Editorial Guidelines and Jodi Guglielmi Jodi Guglielmi Instagram Twitter Writer-Reporter, PEOPLE People Editorial Guidelines Published on December 12, 2018 10:23 AM Share Tweet Pin Email Jon Gosselin says he has been awarded temporary sole custody of his teenage son Collin. For over two years now, Collin has been living away from his family in a program for children with special needs. Jon’s ex-wife Kate Gosselin previously told PEOPLE that she made the difficult decision to enroll her son in the program in order to help him reach his full potential. When Collin leaves the program later this year, he will go home to live with Jon. “It was just easier for the transition,” he told reporters at WE tv’s Real Love: Relationship Reality TV’s Past, Present & Future panel on Tuesday in Los Angeles. “So it’d be easier for one parent to just transition him home, and he wanted to live with me, so it was easier to do it that way.” “I’m excited to have a male around,” he added. “I’m surrounded by females.” PEOPLE confirmed in November that Jon and his attorney submitted papers to a Pennsylvania court on Oct. 24 requesting that Collin live with him, a decision he claims would be in Collin’s “best interest.” In November, Kate, and her lawyer reportedly did not show up to court after her request to postpone the hearing was denied. Reps for Jon and Kate have not responded to PEOPLE’s request for comment. Collin is one of Jon and Kate’s 14-year-old sextuplets — along with Alexis, Leah, Hannah, Joel and Aaden. (They also share 18-year-old twins Mady and Cara.) Jon also said Hannah lives with him “full time.” “Hannah lives with me full time, and then Collin,” he said. “Leah, Alexis, Joel and Aaden, they’re with their mom, and then the twins are 18, so they’re adults.” Jon Gosselin/Instagram Kate Gosselin’s Tough Decision: Why Her Son Is Away Getting Help And while Jon said his relationship with Collin and Hannah is strong, he doesn’t have contact with the other children. “The other four aren’t talking to me, but they’re talking to Hannah,” he said. “It’s what the kids want to do. If they don’t want to talk to me, that’s fine, as long as they keep up with their sibling connections.” The former reality star recalled that last time he saw all of his children, admitting that the meeting was tense. “It was just volatile and a lot going on,” he said. “It was just not a good time.” He added that he does not “communicate” with Kate either. “It’s too much right now,” he said. Kate Gosselin/Instagram; Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Jon Gosselin Posts Rare Photo of Daughter Hannah and Son Collin: ‘Had a Good Weekend Visit’ Jon, 41, has documented his time with Hannah this year — including on the Fourth of July, on Father’s Day weekend, at a restaurant in May and on her birthday that same month. His photo of Hannah on her first day of school back in August seemingly suggested that she was attending a different school than her siblings, who all posed for a different back-to-school photo shared to social media by their mother. In May, Jon and Hannah visited Collin and shared birthday cake and pizza together. Later that month, Hannah posted a photo collage with Collin and their father. Jon Gosselin/Instagram In November, Jon and Hannah reunited with Collin again, posing together in front of a door. In 2016, twins Mady and Cara told PEOPLE that they do not talk to their father. “I wouldn’t even know what to say about him,” Cara explained. ”He makes it seem like we’re being kept from him, which is insane,” Mady said. “He should maybe spend some time thinking about why we don’t want to see him, and maybe realize that if he ever does want a relationship with us, talking about us on TV is not the way to make that happen.” Reporting by RAHA LEWIS