Jesse Metcalfe Is Engaged to Longtime Girlfriend Cara Santana!

The Desperate Housewives actor popped the question after 10 years together

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Jesse Metcalfe is officially off the market!

The Desperate Housewives actor and his longtime girlfriend Cara Santana are engaged, a rep for 37-year-old Metcalfe confirmed to PEOPLE on Tuesday.

Metcalfe, who also starred in John Tucker Must Die, and actress-fashion blogger Santana have been in a relationship for more than a decade, according to Us Weekly.

Santana, who celebrated her 32nd birthday on Monday, penned of the year ahead in an Instagram caption Tuesday, “Missing This View And Last Weekend Already // But So Excited For The Future Year.”

Metcalfe posted a picture of the couple to Instagram and wished Santana a happy birthday. “What a weekend! Meant to get this up yesterday, but was too busy celebrating. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my baby!!!”

Santana told PEOPLE in July that the couple recently purchased a new home together.

On Thursday, the newly engaged couple got cozy at a VIP dinner (hosted by Mathilde and Bertrand Thomas, Jason Wu and Jake Rosenberg of The Coveteur) in the Hamptons for a celebration of the Jason Wu for Cadaulie limited-edition Beauty Elixir.