People.com Entertainment TV Jef Holm Gets in Golf Therapy after Split with Emily Maynard "Just what I needed," says the Bachelorette contestant after ending his engagement By People Staff Published on October 17, 2012 06:00 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Photo: Courtesy Jef Holm How do you cope with heartbreak? For Jef Holm, it’s family, friends and … fore! A day after announcing the end of his engagement to Bachelorette Emily Maynard, Holm posted a photo from the links of himself with Bachelorette runner-up Arie Luyendyk Jr. “Just what I needed,” Holm Tweeted on Tuesday. “Chill golf night in AZ.” Bachelorette‘s Emily Maynard and Jef Holm End Engagement Holm told his Twitter followers he’s been in Arizona this week “to hang with my mom and sisters” and to meet his new niece. On Monday, Holm said that he and Maynard called off their engagement even though they “tried our hardest to make it work.” “Emily and I are great friends,” he said, “and I hope we can continue to be friends forever.”