The Bachelor in Paradise stars play a quick-fire relationship game with PEOPLE Now

By Aurelie Corinthios
September 29, 2016 04:50 PM

If your first kiss was on national television, you’d think you remember it … right? Not Tanner Tolbert!

The Bachelor in Paradise star and his fiancée Jade opened up to PEOPLE Now about their very first kiss – and let’s just say they didn’t quite see eye to eye.

“[It was] by a river in Mexico somewhere,” said Tanner, 29. “I don’t even know where!”

“That technically wasn’t our first kiss,” corrected Jade, 29.

So what caused the confusion? Tanner actually had a few too many drinks on their first date.

“I don’t think he remembers!” said Jade with a laugh.

“I saw it on camera afterwards, so yeah, it must be true,” he added.

Throughout the rest of the game, the happy couple had to give quick-fire yes or no answers to questions about relationships.

A few big reveals? They tend to agree on most things: They both think it’s okay to hook up in the Fantasy Suite (duh), they both think it’s okay for partners to have access to each other’s social media accounts and they both think it’s okay, for the most part, to stay in touch with an ex – in fact, Jade revealed the two have actually gone to Christmas parties with Tanner’s high school sweetheart!

That being said, while Tanner thinks it’s okay to date a friend’s ex Jade thinks that’s a “no-no.”

“My best friend growing up is married to my high school sweetheart, so that’s just the norm I guess, where we come from,” said Tanner.

“I swear, everybody in Kansas City has dated everybody!” said Jade.

In another exclusive video, the two revealed the last romantic date they’ve been on – and we have to admit, it’s pretty darn cute.

“We took Tanner’s pickup truck to our land that we’re building and we put out a bunch of blankets and pillows and watched the sunset,” said Jade.

“Pretty sweet of me, huh?” quipped Tanner. Pretty sweet indeed!

The Tolberts will soon be appearing on Marriage Boot Camp: Reality Stars, premiering Oct. 7 at 9 p.m. ET on WEtv.