By StyleWatch
Updated May 11, 2009 07:59 PM

Courtesy Neil Lane; (inset) Shea Walsh/AP

Dean McDermott is keeping his promise to buy Tori Spelling a new wedding ring every anniversary. This year, the actor took his wife to dinner at Hollywood hotspot Mr. Chow and surprised her with a Neil Lane sparkler. “I love the tradition Dean has started,” Spelling exclusively tells PEOPLE. “Every year when he slips it on my ring finger, it reminds me of the day he made me his wife and we started our amazing journey together as one.” The antique French ring consists of a round white diamond and a fancy round yellow diamond set side by side, symbolizing the expression “Toi et Moi”, or “You and Me”. “I can’t wait to one day pass on my amazing wedding band collection to my kids and their kids,” says Spelling, who is mom to daughter Stella, 11 months and son Liam, 2. Three days later, it was time to celebrate again for Mother’s Day. During brunch at the Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills with her husband and children, Spelling received a Tacori gold necklace with an “L” and “S” pendant. When she returned home, Spelling found a manicurist ready to pamper her with a manicure and pedicure. “It’s been so long since I’ve felt so pampered!” she says. “It was so sweet.” Also sweet is the success of her second book, Mommywood, which is currently in its third week on the New York Times bestseller list and the premiere of the fourth season of the couple’s Oxygen show Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood, on Tuesday, May 26. — Ulrica Wihlborg and Lizz Leonard