Nikki Reed gave birth to her first child with husband Ian Somerhalder, daughter Bodhi Soleil, in July 2017

By Helen Murphy
March 06, 2019 01:05 PM
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Nikki Reed is opening up about putting her baby girl ahead of her work.

The Twilight alum is mom to 19-month-old Bodhi Soleil, whom she shares with her husband and former Vampire Diaries actor Ian Somerhalder. Bodhi is the first child for the couple, who wed in April 2015 after getting engaged that January.

In a lengthy Instagram post on Tuesday, Reed, 30, reflected on the importance of spending time with Bodhi while her daughter is still young, and juggling her life as a working mother.

“As we transition from four feedings a day down to two, I am remembering how important it is to stop what I am doing and enjoy every second of this bonding time,” she wrote. “I am remding [sic] myself that my hormones are shifting, and that it’s normal to feel weepy as your body regulates through the transition. It goes so fast.”

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Reed — who founded the sustainable, eco-friendly lifestyle brand Bayou with Love and designed jewelry for the line — then revealed that she often breastfeeds Bodhi while she’s working.

“I’ve got just a few minutes to approve imagery or go through CADs so lets [sic] do it all at the same time … right? Multitasking is the key to being a working mom … right?” she went on. “Today I am reminding myself to slow down and separate the two. Today working and bonding are going to have their own time, so I can try my hardest to soak up every moment, and smile at every detail.”

“Even if it’s just the nighttime feeding, people can wait and emails will be answered … when she’s finished,” Reed continued. “The sounds, the swallows, where she puts her hand, watching her daydream, because before I know it we will have turned the page … ”

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In December, Reed, who is notoriously private about sharing photos of Bodhi on social media, told PEOPLE that her baby girl is “just the most spectacular thing.”

She also opened up about how she and Somerhalder, 40, changed their lifestyle once their daughter arrived. Before Bodhi was born, Reed said, she and her husband would typically be on planes every month or so, flying back and forth to visit each other. But now that they’re a family, they all travel together.

“We live such crazy nomadic lifestyles all over the place, on planes, and [we’ve had] to uproot and move,” Reed told PEOPLE. “Now that we’re a family, the whole family goes together so that Mom and Dad can both be there at every second to witness every milestone and everything that’s happening.”

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On Father’s Day in 2018, Reed posted a sweet tribute to Somerhalder on Instagram.

“The way she looks at you. The way you look at her,” the actress and entrepreneur wrote. “Here’s to all the adventures you two will have together. Thank you for being so present, so patient, so soft yet so protective.”

“Thank you for reminding both of us to stop and smell every flower,” Reed continued. “Happy Father’s Day … Love, Mama and the cub.”