People.com Celebrity Parents 'The Bachelor' 's Lesley Murphy Explains Why She's 'Not Able to Breastfeed' Newborn Daughter Nora "Even if I was [breastfeeding], we should all support everyone's unique feeding journey," Lesley Murphy says as she reminds fans of her previous double mastectomy By Jen Juneau Jen Juneau Twitter Jen Juneau is a digital news writer for PEOPLE. A '90s teen and horror film connoisseur, she started at the brand in 2016, after a decade of working as a technical writer and then moonlighting as a journalist beginning in 2013. Originally from New Orleans, Jen grew up both in NOLA and Florida and eventually attended the University of Central Florida in Orlando (still her home base!), where she earned a bachelor's in English/technical communication, with a minor in magazine journalism. People Editorial Guidelines Published on February 19, 2021 02:48 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Lesley Murphy and daughter Nora. Photo: Lesley Murphy/Instagram Lesley Murphy is calling for support for all moms, regardless of the method they choose to feed their babies. The Bachelor season 17 contestant shared a question to her Instagram Story Thursday — "Why aren't you breastfeeding?" — which one fan asked after Murphy, 33, posted a video of a formula maker that she was using for her 1-week-old daughter Nora Blanche. "Lots of these so wanted to address! I had a double mastectomy 4 years ago and am not able to breastfeed," Murphy responds. She concludes with a request for blanket acceptance, writing, "Even if I was, we should all support everyone's unique feeding journey." Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. Lesley Murphy's Instagram Story. Lesley Murphy/Instagram The Bachelor's Lesley Murphy Gets Candid About Intimacy Following Double Mastectomy Murphy and her fiancé Alex Kavanagh welcomed baby Nora, their first child, on Feb. 12. The former reality star announced her daughter's birth on her Instagram Story, with a brief statement. "Baby girl Kavanagh is here! She is healthy and beautiful, and we are filled with pure wonder and awe to be in her presence 😍," Murphy wrote. "Thank you so much for the love and prayers!!! Mom and Dad are doing amazing, just in need of some rest :) Can't wait to update you soon 🙏❤️" In a Valentine's Day post on Sunday, the new mom revealed further details about her baby girl, including her name and weight. "I find her so perfect that sometimes words fail me and I'm left in tears instead ... like right now," Murphy wrote. "Pure love is being home with this little ball of joy on a snowy Valentine's Day as a family of 3!" RELATED VIDEO: Lesley Murphy Undergoes Preventative Double Mastectomy Nearly 3 Years After Her Mother's Breast-Cancer Diagnosis Murphy previously discussed undergoing a preventative double mastectomy in 2017 after learning that she carries the BRCA 2 gene — which puts her at a higher risk of developing breast cancer — and, later, getting breast implants. (Her mother was in remission at the time from her own 2014 breast-cancer diagnosis.) In an October 2018 blog post on her website, Murphy candidly opened up how her life — and her sex life — has changed as a result of the surgeries. She explained that although it was "intimidating as hell in the beginning" to be honest with her partner, the experience only helped "fuel" her self-love and acceptance. "I can't lie to you. Not all days are rainbows and daisies," Murphy admitted. "I have an inner critic that frequently tells me my chest isn't normal. Then, my inner best friend comes into play and says DIFFERENT is SEXY, and she always wins. Feeling or no feeling, your partner should find you sexy because you are, not because you're brave or because they feel an obligation to say certain words to your face." "If you're someone who is super attached to your breasts, losing a body part can feel similar to grief," she added. "In the end, we must work through the pain and accept the 'new' and healthier versions of ourselves. Suffering, of any kind, connects us all … reminding us that we are all beautiful no matter the route we choose."