From Spending Time at Home to His Kids' Musical Inclinations: Remembering Chris Cornell's Life as a Rock Star Dad
"Don't make the successful part more important than the process of doing it," Chris Cornell said in 2015 of advice he'd give his kids for future careers
Chris Cornell‘s sudden death by suicide at the age of 52 is a tragedy felt in heavy waves across the world of music and beyond. The rocker was found dead in his hotel room in Detroit Wednesday night following what would turn out to be a final Soundgarden performance.
But behind the music, Cornell was also a husband and a father. Alongside his legacy, he leaves behind wife Vicky and their two children: son Christopher, 11, and daughter Toni, 12, as well as 16-year-old daughter Lillian from his previous marriage to Susan Silver.
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Here are a few things Cornell said about fatherhood — and its impact on his life — over the years.
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The Impact Music Has Had on His Kids
“Music has been a part of my children’s lives,” Cornell told Inquirer.net in an April interview about The Promise, a historical drama about Armenian Genocide during World War I whose end-title theme he wrote and performed.
“I can’t compare my relationship to music with theirs because they’ve had a different experience,” Cornell continued. “But I made a point of not telling them what to listen to. My daughter Toni has an unusual list of artists and songs she listens to.”
How Being a Dad Inspired His Philanthropic Work
“The initial discussions about [The Promise] that I was having with [producer Eric Esrailian] spawned from me being a father and going through periods of stress, waking up in the middle of the night, and being aware of the different political tensions in the world,” he added to Inquirer.net.
“I never had that fear before. I thought of my responsibility about the welfare of my babies,” said Cornell, who co-launched the Chris & Vicky Cornell Foundation with his wife in 2012, “My wife and I always wanted to do something to give back to the community, because we’ve been very fortunate. First and foremost that came to mind for us were children and doing whatever we can to protect the most vulnerable ones.”
On Keeping His Children Exposed to Different Cultures
“Because I live in Rome, I’ve taken my children to the Vatican and spent a lot of time wandering around outside,” he told Inquirer.net (the musician hailed from Seattle and spent time living many different places with his wife, including Florida, New York City and Paris).
“I always wondered what it would feel like going inside,” added the “Black Hole Sun” singer. “So, screening The Promise [in the Vatican] was a very emotional day.”
On Being Supportive of the Career Direction His Kids Choose
“He’s his own guy,” Cornell told Rolling Stone Australia in September 2015 of his son Christopher. “He listens to a lot of different kinds of music, and I haven’t really tried to push him in any one direction.”
“I think my children are definitely musically inclined and they show it, and they’re exposed to a lot of it,” the singer continued. “And they’re their own people, and I think easily they could do something musical or they could do something in acting or film or other types of the arts, and I would fully support it.”
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The Advice He’d Give His Kids on Pursuing Music
“It has to be done for the right reason, and I’d say that to anybody,” he told Rolling Stone Australia. “Obviously I want my kids to be happy, and I believe that they can be super successful at whatever they want to do, but don’t make the successful part more important than the process of doing it. Especially if it’s an artistic endeavor.”
“Make sure that it’s inspired, that’s your chief goal, ’cause I also believe that success comes from that,” Cornell emphasized.
How Fatherhood Has Changed His Vision of the World Around Him
“I came from a childhood where I spent a lot of time alone and a lot of time just living with my imagination, and a certain amount of the adult world was kind of alienating,” the “Hunger Strike” crooner told SeattlePi.com in April 2006.
“And I find now after spending a lot of time with my babies, they’re my best friends. And I still find a certain part of the adult world alienating, so I’d rather just hang out with my kids.”
On Never Feeling the Need to “Settle Into” a Certain Lifestyle
“One of the main dilemmas that’s pretty common to a lot of people who are getting older is the idea that maybe there’s a finish line and that maybe there’s a time in your life when you start to slow down and stop and smell the roses and just kind of settle into what will be a comfortable period in your life,” Cornell added to SeattlePi.com.
“And I found that for me, that’s never going to happen because that’s absolutely the last thing I want. And I think that’s a lot of why Vicky and I clicked so well — we shared that attitude.”