Bekah Martinez and Boyfriend 'Wanted to Break Up a Million Times' After Conceiving Early on
Martinez explained, however, that they never really nailed down a sex life to compare their current flame to since they conceived their first child, now-17-month-old daughter Ruth Ray De La Luz, early in their relationship.
"Honestly ... I got prego three months into dating. we didn't have a 'sex life' really established before pregnancy and kids so we've kind of never known any different with each other 😬," she wrote over a photo of herself smiling next to Leonard.
Martinez — who welcomed their second child, son Franklin James, on June 19 — opened up about the initial struggle in becoming pregnant at the early stages of her relationship, describing the time as "so f---ing hard."
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"Wanted to break up a million times. it sucked," she wrote. "I felt guilty for wanting to end the pregnancy initially. i worried my child's parents would hate each other. but we made it. and came out stronger than ever."
The Chatty Broads podcast co-host also shared how back-to-back pregnancies impacted her, noting that she plans to take a bit of a break before she welcomes any more new additions.
"It's nice to have *just* gone through the newborn stage and stuff last year because i feel used to it and prepared and i still have all the gear," Martinez continued. "And i'm hopeful they'll be super close with each other as they grow up together only a year apart :)"
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"But MAMA needs a break," she said, "and it's not easy on your body or mental health to feel like you've been pregnant for like two years straight."
"I will be taking a break for a bit and will probably want to have a couple years in between future children rather than just 16 months!" the mother of two added.
Martinez said in another slide on her Instagram Story that she plans to try a new IUD as a form of birth control now since "the pull-out method doesn't seem to be the best for us 😂."