February 12, 2016 03:15 PM

When it comes to caring for her unborn baby, Ali Fedotowsky says she’s been a bit of a “crazy person.”

“I don’t drink alcohol, I don’t drink coffee, I changed my lotion and I even changed my makeup!” the former Bachelorette, who is expecting her first child with her fiancé, Valentine in the Morning co-host Kevin Manno, this summer, tells PEOPLE.

Lifestyle changes and all, Fedotowsky is excited about the new arrival. And though the mom and dad-to-be know the sex of their baby on the way, for now it will remain a secret.

“It hasn’t even settled in for us yet,” says Fedotowsky, 31. “So we’re not quite ready to share.”

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As for wedding talk, Fedotowsky is focused on the baby — and making it clear that this was a planned event.

“We made the decision to start a family before getting married,” she says. “This was not an ‘oops, what happened’ moment. We pulled the goalie! We’re like, ‘We want this!’ “

For more from Ali Fedotowsky and all your other favorite Bachelors and Bachelorettes, tune in to The Bachelor At 20: A Celebration of Love on Sunday, Feb. 14, at 8/7c on ABC.

— Aili Nahas

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