"We're going to have another [baby], just not now. It's a question of time," Alec Baldwin said at the American Museum of Natural History's 2019 Museum Gala

By Ashley Boucher and Carly Breit
November 22, 2019 12:19 AM

Hilaria Baldwin and Alec Baldwin stepped out Thursday for the first time since Hilaria announced that she suffered her second miscarriage in seven months.

The pair attended the American Museum of Natural History‘s 2019 Museum Gala, and while the parents said it has been a difficult few days, they’re also planning on trying again for another baby.

“We’re going to have another one, just not now. It’s a question of time,” Alec, 61, told Extra at the event.

“It’s been hard,” the Saturday Night Live star added, saying that even in the wake of such a tragedy, the couple couldn’t be more bonded if they tried.

“If we were closer … I would be sewn to her,” Alec said.

Alec Baldwin, Hilaria Baldwin
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Hilaria, 35, shared with PEOPLE during the event that she’s feeling both physically and emotionally “much better” after revealing the sad news, and doesn’t feel pressured to share her experiences as much as empowered.

“I feel like it’s making the best out of a bad situation because I feel like it’s an important message, that people are not alone,” she said. “People think [our lives are] all roses and diamonds and all that stuff. I think it’s important to be honest because we’re so much more similar, everybody is, than different.”

“It brings the world a little bit closer,” Hilaria continued. “But what has been very important for me, in my own healing journey, is to realize that I’m not alone, and so I want to do that for other people as well.”

Alec Baldwin (L) and Hilaria Baldwin
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In fact, sharing brought Hilaria a special connection that has helped her cope with the tragedy: Kimberly Van Der Beek, whose husband, James Van Der Beek, announced on this week’s Dancing with the Stars that she had lost the baby boy she was carrying.

“We connected, and I guess we truly know what’s going on for each other,” Hilaria told Extra of speaking with the mother of five. “It’s been tough. She’s very strong and my heart is with what’s going on with them.”

Hilaria revealed last week on her Instagram feed that she found out at her 20-week scan with her doctor that she had lost her baby. The news was especially devastating for the mother of four, who last suffered a miscarriage just seven months ago.

“We are very sad to share that today we learned that our baby passed away at 4 months. We also want you to know that even though we are not ok right now, we will be,” she wrote alongside a video of herself with her 6-year-old daughter Carmen Gabriela.

Over the weekend, the Mom Brain podcast host shared an update with her fans on Instagram, sharing that she was doing “better.”

“I have my moments when I feel better then I have moments when I will get really sad. But I feel like time and healing and everyone’s support is helping me,” she said. “Spending time with my babies and husband helps so much. I’m so lucky to have them.”

Hilaria and Alec are also parents to sons Romeo Alejandro David, 18 months, Leonardo Ángel Charles, 3, and Rafael Thomas, 4, while Alec is dad to 24-year-old daughter Ireland.