Entertainment Music After Years of Relentless Bullying, Pop Artist NEDY Finally Speaks Her Mind in Single 'Made to Be' "I felt very lonely and spent a lot of time questioning myself and my self-worth," the singer-songwriter says of her past experiences By Tricia Despres Tricia Despres Instagram Twitter Tricia Despres is a writer for PEOPLE digital, covering everything from country music to pets to that love story that will have you shedding some tears. Since graduating from Northern Illinois University with her Journalism degree firmly in her hands, the wife of one and mother of two has written for publications such as the Chicago Sun-Times, Taste of Country, and several state mags across the Midwest. When she is not at her laptop, she remains in a state of mourning over the demise of Rascal Flatts. People Editorial Guidelines Published on March 18, 2021 06:30 PM Share Tweet Pin Email It was 2016 when inspirational pop artist NEDY walked into a well-known restaurant in California, looking for a waitress job that would help her pay a growing pile of bills. She was quickly hired, but soon, she would find herself on a three-year journey of taunts and teasing and cutdowns from her very own co-workers. She was 27 years old, and she was being bullied. "I was left heartbroken by the experience," NEDY, 32, tells PEOPLE. "I was being picked on for no reason. I guess I wasn't part of the clique. I was just being myself, and I could never do anything right in their eyes. I felt very lonely and spent a lot of time questioning myself and my self-worth." But one night after one extremely difficult shift at the restaurant, the budding songwriter decided to sit down with those hurtful feelings and write a song. And today, that empowering song is NEDY's first single, "Made to Be." "Writing 'Made to Be' was extremely healing to me," NEDY remembers of the song she ended up writing in 2019. "I started to realize that I can't help but be who God made me to be. And if you don't like it, I'm not sure what to say. That's who I am. No one should ever be hated on just because they are different or unique." NEDY. Brian McQuain Unfortunately, it wasn't the first time NEDY experienced the sting that comes from being bullied. Born into a lower-middle-class family to a mother whose divorce forced her to become the sole bread winner of the family, NEDY didn't always have the brand name shoes on her feet or the fancy backpack swung around her shoulder. "Nothing was handed to me as a kid, because truthfully, there wasn't much to hand," remembers NEDY, who suffered from anxiety and depression as a teen growing up in Los Angeles. "But I did have this Dora the Explorer backpack in high school, and I remember this guy came up to me and told me that I looked like the monkey on my backpack. He just wanted to be mean for no reason. It didn't make any sense, of course." Bullying never does. "I've never been one to go with the crowd," continues NEDY, who plans to release the "Made to Be Remix" next month along with an accompanying music video for the faith-filled anthem. "I've always just wanted to think on my own and be my own person. And there were times that even though I was being bullied, I still was happy. And I truly believe that sometimes, when people see you happy, they set out to make you miserable. Misery loves company, you know?" Shawn Mendes, Lady Gaga & More Stars Who've Open Up About the Bullying They Faced as Kids But while those painful days are finally behind NEDY, she still can remember them like they were yesterday. In fact, along with the release of "Made to Be," NEDY has now also created the "Friends Forever Club," an anti-bullying organization and online forum on Instagram that hopes to help put an end to childhood bullying once and for all. "I just have a compassion for people who feel lonely and don't have friends or who are doubting themselves in any way," says NEDY of the forum that was specially created for children ages 8 to 18. "The 'Friends Forever Club' is all about always having a friend to talk to. We need each other so much in this life." NEDY. Joshua Silvers In fact, NEDY receives multiple messages every day from kids and preteens who end up finding the "Friends Forever Club" online, kids and preteens who at this very moment are experiencing hatred in their own lives. "I try my best to just encourage them and make them realize that no one can define your value," NEDY explains. "You are so valuable, and it doesn't matter what anyone says. That's my foundation. God has given me the confidence to walk in my own shoes and to own who I am and who He made me to be. And now my purpose is to share that with others." She also has one more thing she would like to share with those co-workers who did their very best to break her. "I want them to know that while they might have thought they killed my joyful spirit, they actually didn't," NEDY says quietly. "They weren't even close. They were never in control of me or my dreams or my self-worth. They never had that much power. I would love for them to know that." And now, maybe they do.