Entertainment Music J.Lo Reveals How She and A-Rod Keep Their Flame Alive: 'We Really Complement Each Other' J.Lo insists that she's not quite ready to take a trip down the aisle with A-Rod — but she did offer some insight into how they remain so happy together By Jordan Runtagh Jordan Runtagh Twitter Jordan Runtagh is an Executive Podcast Producer at iHeartRadio, where he hosts a slate of pop culture shows including Too Much Information, Inside the Studio, Off the Record and Rivals: Music's Greatest Feuds. Previously, he served as a Music Editor at PEOPLE and VH1.com. He's written about art and entertainment for more than a decade, regularly contributing to outlets like Rolling Stone and Entertainment Weekly, and appearing as a guest on radio and television. Over the course of his career, he's profiled the surviving Beatles, Brian Wilson, Aretha Franklin, Roger Waters, David Byrne, Pete Townshend, Debbie Harry, Quincy Jones, Brian May, Jerry Lee Lewis, James Taylor and many more. A graduate of NYU's Tisch School of the Arts, he lives in Brooklyn, where he can be found DJing '60s soul records. People Editorial Guidelines Published on July 31, 2018 04:00 PM Share Tweet Pin Email If you looked up “couples goals” in the dictionary, you’d probably find a picture of Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez. The loving glow between the super star pair has prompted engagement rumors since soon after they began stepping out together in February 2017. In a new interview on the Cubby and Carolina in the Morning radio show, Lopez insists that she’s not quite ready to take a repeat trip down the aisle (“I’m not engaged—no, no”). However, she did offer some insight into how they remain so happy. “I think we’re both in a good place in our lives,” says Lopez, 49. “And I think maybe if we would have met in our twenties, maybe not so much…. we were both… we’re too crazy. But now at this point in our lives where we both have kids, we both have accomplished certain things in our careers and we’re kinda in that second act of our lives, we really complement each other. It’s like, where I need help, he’s really strong and where he needs help I’m really strong.” She adds, “When two people just fit together really well — he and I are like that.” Eric Espada/Getty The multi-talented entertainer, whose new song "Dinero" is out now, also opened up about how the families are blending together. In addition to Lopez’s twins — Maximilian “Max” David and Emme Maribel, 10 — from her marriage to Marc Anthony, Rodriguez, 43, also has daughters Ella Alexander, 10, and Natasha Alexander, 13. According to Lopez, the kids are getting along “amazing.” Jennifer Lopez and Alex Rodriguez Celebrate the Weekend with Their Kids During School Carpool Jennifer Lopez/Instagram “Honestly it couldn’t be better,” she continues. “The four of them are amazingly special kids. I mean, of course I’m going to say that because I’m their mom, but they are and they’re sweet and they’re loving and they deal with us and our lifestyle in such a great way. And they love each other, they get along so good.” Lopez adds, “We couldn’t have asked for more … that stuff can be tricky sometimes and I think a lot of people understand that. I’ve had other relationships where it’s been tricky but with these four it really works nicely.” On Tuesday, it was announced that Lopez would receive the Michael Jackson Video Vanguard Award at the 2018 MTV VMAs. As a Video Vanguard recipient, she will follow in the footsteps of past honorees including Britney Spears, Justin Timberlake, Kanye West, Rihanna and Pink.