Entertainment Music Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale Are in Mediation Over 'Different Points of View' on Parenting The pair finalized their divorce in 2016 after an infidelity scandal rocked their marriage By Melody Chiu Melody Chiu Instagram Twitter Melody Chiu is a Senior Editor for PEOPLE. She has been with the brand since 2009, editing, writing and reporting across all entertainment verticals. She oversees PEOPLE's music and events coverage and has written cover stories on Taylor Swift, Selena Gomez, Melissa McCarthy, Blake Shelton and Sandra Oh. The Los Angeles native graduated from the University of Southern California and has appeared on Extra!, The Talk, Access Hollywood and Good Morning America. People Editorial Guidelines and Jeff Nelson Jeff Nelson Instagram Twitter Jeff Nelson is the Senior News Editor, Entertainment at PEOPLE. For nearly a decade, he has worked across the brand's entertainment verticals, reporting on breaking news and writing and editing across platforms, as well as securing A-list cover exclusives, including Barry Manilow's coming out and an at-home interview with Madonna. Jeff has appeared as an expert on Good Morning America, Extra, HLN and SiriusXM, as well as at RuPaul's DragCon as a moderator. He studied magazine journalism at Drake University, graduating with a B.A. in Journalism & Mass Communication. People Editorial Guidelines Published on September 6, 2018 04:35 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Photo: Chris Polk/PMA2014/Getty Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale are in mediation over opposing parenting styles, PEOPLE confirms. “They have very different points of view on how to raise their kids,” a source tells PEOPLE of the exes, who share custody of their three sons: Kingston, 12, Zuma, 10, and Apollo, 4½. The source adds that while Stefani’s religious beliefs are a priority for her, Rossdale “isn’t a Christian and parenting in that way.” A second insider tells PEOPLE Rossdale “loves his kids,” adding: “They’re the world to him. He’s a great father and wants to spend as much time with them as possible.” No Doubt frontwoman Stefani, 48, met Rossdale, 52, when her band was on tour with his rock act Bush. The couple were together for 20 years (and married for 13) before announcing in August 2015 that they had split after an infidelity scandal rocked their marriage. RELATED VIDEO: Gwen Stefani and Her Kids Spend Spring Break in Blake Shelton’s Native State of Oklahoma Kevin Mazur/Getty Blake Shelton’s Friends Were Shocked He Snagged Gwen Stefani: ‘They Were Like, “What in the Hell?”‘ “While the two of us have come to the mutual decision that we will no longer be partners in marriage, we remain partners in parenthood and are committed to jointly raising our three sons in a happy and healthy environment,” the pair told PEOPLE in a statement at the time. In April 2016, the pair reached a divorce settlement: a source told PEOPLE Rossdale agreed to an unequal split of property so Stefani ended up with more; 50-50 joint custody of their children; and he did not ask for child support. “We both just want the kids to be as safe and as happy as possible, so that’s the only focus we have,” Rossdale told PEOPLE last year of coparenting with his ex. Gavin Rossdale and sons. Gavin Rossdale/Instagram Gavin Rossdale Is ‘Sad’ but ‘Being an Optimist About’ Gwen Stefani Divorce: ‘It’s Just the Way That It Goes Sometimes’ Since the split both Stefani and Rossdale have moved on romantically: She has been dating her Voice costar Blake Shelton, 42, since fall 2015, while Rossdale has been linked to German model Sophia Thomalla, 28.