Entertainment Movies Tiffany Haddish Tried Out Racy Romance Tips a Fan Sent Her, Jokes 'I Think They're Working' on Common The fan, a 67-year woman, wrote to Tiffany Haddish and advised the actress, "Don't walk around naked — make him work for it" By Jen Juneau Jen Juneau Twitter Jen Juneau is a digital news writer for PEOPLE. A '90s teen and horror film connoisseur, she started at the brand in 2016, after a decade of working as a technical writer and then moonlighting as a journalist beginning in 2013. Originally from New Orleans, Jen grew up both in NOLA and Florida and eventually attended the University of Central Florida in Orlando (still her home base!), where she earned a bachelor's in English/technical communication, with a minor in magazine journalism. People Editorial Guidelines Published on February 12, 2021 05:03 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Common and Tiffany Haddish . Photo: Lester Cohen/Getty Tiffany Haddish is using advice from a fan to fan the flames of passion! On Friday's episode of the new PEOPLE Every Day podcast, hosted by Janine Rubenstein, the Like a Boss actress opens up about some hilarious (albeit useful!) tips she got from a 67-year-old fan who wrote to her — and she has already used some on it on boyfriend Common! "She said she was single and she gave me all the tips that she wish somebody would have told her when she was dating [and] when she got married ... that would have probably made her marriage last longer and would have made it easier for her," says Haddish, 41. Some of the fan's standout advice? " 'When you have an argument with him, express how you feel. You don't got to scream at him, but express how you feel and then shut up,' " she recalls, as well as, " 'Don't walk around naked — make him work for it.' " "She's like, 'Always wear a nightgown to bed. Never go to bed naked — make him work to see you naked,' " Haddish adds. Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. Common and Tiffany Haddish. Johnny Nunez/WireImage Tiffany Haddish on What Sets Common Apart from Past Partners: He Makes "My Light Shine Even Bigger" Of whether she has tried out any of the fan's tips, Haddish jokes, "I have been using some of the nuggets and I think they're working." This year, she and Common, 48, aren't planning to make a huge deal out of Valentine's Day, as it's not something she usually celebrates in the traditional sense. "I'm not going to let society tell me what day I'm supposed to be loving on somebody," says the Girls Trip star. "If somebody's supposed to be loving on me, that needs to happen on a daily basis." Want to get the biggest stories from PEOPLE every weekday? Subscribe to our new podcast, PEOPLE Every Day, to get the essential celebrity, entertainment and human interest news stories Monday through Friday - and listen to Tiffany's episode, below! RELATED VIDEO: Common Says He and Girlfriend Tiffany Haddish Are "Doing Wonderful": "Tiffany Has a Good Heart" Right now, the couple is seeing each other about two to three times a week due to the rapper's busy schedule as he works on his next album. "But we talk every day," Haddish says. "We're always FaceTiming and checking in with each other and making sure we're doing good." "It's funny because when we do get together ... you know [when] how you haven't seen your bestie in a long time?" she adds. "He'll be like, 'This gets on my nerves when you do this.' And we're laughing about it." Check out more from Haddish's interview on PEOPLE Every Day, airing now on iHeartMedia, Apple podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Amazon Music or wherever you listen to your podcasts.