Entertainment Movies Kate Hudson Opens Up About Surviving Breakup from Matt Bellamy: 'I Started Taking Accountability' The Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery actress was engaged to the Muse frontman from 2011 to 2014 and they share son Bing, 11 By Marisa Sullivan Marisa Sullivan Instagram Twitter Digital News Writer People Editorial Guidelines Published on December 14, 2022 08:49 AM Share Tweet Pin Email Kate Hudson. Photo: David M. Benett/Dave Benett/Getty Images Kate Hudson is opening up more about her split from ex-fiancé Matt Bellamy. During a Tuesday guest spot on the Reign with Josh Smith podcast, Hudson, 43, discussed how, at the time, she didn't want her relationship with the Muse frontman to end. "You have to be honest with yourself," she said of "peeling back those layers," in reference to her latest film Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery. "I think that's when things started changing for me — when I started taking far more accountability for my own s---," Hudson added about the end of her relationship with Bellamy, 44. Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. Matt Bellamy and Kate Hudson in 2014. Michael Buckner/Getty Images Kate Hudson Shares How Co-Parenting Has Brought Her Closer to Ex Matt Bellamy: "We Have to Trust" "That was when it started to shift because that's where I think you find your power," Hudson continued. "When you realize how imperfect we all are, when you're OK with that, it's very liberating." Hudson and Bellamy were engaged from 2011 to 2014. They share one son together: Bing, 11. The actress also has an older son, 18-year-old Ryder Robinson, with ex-husband Chris Robinson, and daughter Rani, 4, with fiancé Danny Fujikawa. Following her "second failed baby-daddy relationship," Hudson said she had to face herself. "OK, now I have to figure this out," she admitted. Kate Hudson. Carlos Alvarez/Getty Images Kate Hudson and Danny Fujikawa Have a Blended Family Easter with Matt Bellamy and His Wife Elle Since Hudson and Bellamy's split, the former couple has continued to co-parent and participate in blended family holidays — and Hudson herself is more than familiar with big, blended families, sharing a close relationship with mom Goldie Hawn's longtime partner Kurt Russell and Hudson's half-brother, Wyatt Russell. In April 2021, the Almost Famous star discussed with Women's Health how co-parenting has strengthened her relationship with Bellamy. "One thing that Matt said to me, which I loved, is, 'I just want to make sure that Bing feels like he's gaining something, not losing something,' " Hudson said. "I think it's even bonded us closer — me, Matt, [his wife] Elle and Danny — because we have to trust that we're protecting each other." "I'm really lucky. I've got lots of dads. I trust them," she added.