People.com Entertainment Movies Bruce Willis' Wife Emma Shares Message About 'Caring for Yourself': 'I Don't Do This Perfectly' "I really am trying so I can be the best I can be for the people I love and adore," Emma Heming Willis wrote of prioritizing her needs By Jen Juneau Jen Juneau Twitter Jen Juneau is a digital news writer for PEOPLE. A '90s teen and horror film connoisseur, she started at the brand in 2016, after a decade of working as a technical writer and then moonlighting as a journalist beginning in 2013. Originally from New Orleans, Jen grew up both in NOLA and Florida and eventually attended the University of Central Florida in Orlando (still her home base!), where she earned a bachelor's in English/technical communication, with a minor in magazine journalism. People Editorial Guidelines Published on June 7, 2022 04:36 PM Share Tweet Pin Email Bruce and Emma Heming Willis in 2019. Photo: Theo Wargo/Getty Emma Heming Willis knows you can't pour from an empty cup. In a post shared to The Womens Alzheimers Movement's Instagram feed on May 23, the model, actress, mother of two and wife to Bruce Willis was quoted as saying, "Someone told me not long ago that when you over-care for someone, you end up under-caring for yourself," from her recent interview with The Bump. Emma, 43, reshared the post to her Instagram Story on Monday and wrote, "When you put everyone's needs above your own, no one wins." "I don't do this perfectly but I really am trying so I can be the best I can be for the people I love and adore," she concluded. Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human-interest stories. Emma Heming Willis' Instagram Story. Emma Heming Willis/Instagram Emma Heming Willis Thanks Fans "from the Bottom of My Heart" Following Husband Bruce's Aphasia News In a recent interview with The Bump published last month, Emma got candid about the "struggle" of making time for herself as she is constantly putting her "family's needs above my own." Emma and husband Bruce, 67, share daughters Evelyn, 8, and Mabel, 10. "I struggle with making the time for self-care every day. I put my family's needs above my own, which I found does not make me any kind of hero," she explained. "That amount of care for everyone else within my household had taken a toll on my mental health and overall health, and it served no one in my family." "Someone told me not long ago that when you over-care for someone, you end up under-caring for yourself. That stopped me in my tracks and really resonated with me," Emma continued. "I don't mother myself perfectly but I know that I have some basic baseline needs that are a must, like first and foremost, exercise." "I think it's important to find that one thing that makes you feel good and build from there," she added. RELATED VIDEO: Bruce Willis and Wife Emma Hang in Their "Favorite Habitat" in Sweet Photo Taken by Their Daughter In March, the Willis family revealed on social media that Bruce would be "stepping away" from his acting career after being diagnosed with aphasia. "To Bruce's amazing supporters, as a family we wanted to share that our beloved Bruce has been experiencing some health issues and has recently been diagnosed with aphasia, which is impacting his cognitive abilities," they wrote. "As a result of this and with much consideration Bruce is stepping away from the career that has meant so much to him." The Die Hard actor's family's Instagram posts went on to say that it "is a really challenging time" for them all, "and we are so appreciative of your continued love, compassion and support." "We are moving through this as a strong family unit, and wanted to bring his fans in because we know how much he means to you, as you do to him. As Bruce always says, 'Live it up' and together we plan to do just that," they concluded, signing the note from the actor's daughters Rumer Willis, Scout Willis, Tallulah Willis, Mabel and Evelyn, plus Bruce's wife Emma and ex-wife Demi Moore.