Entertainment Movies Antonio Banderas Says Ex-Wife Melanie Griffith Is Still His Best Friend: 'I'll Always Love Her' "Melanie is not my wife anymore, but I think she is my best friend," Pain and Glory star Antonio Banderas tells PEOPLE of his ex-wife, actress Melanie Griffith By Samantha Miller Samantha Miller As editorial director for entertainment, Samantha Miller oversees PEOPLE's coverage of the celebrity and entertainment world, from cover and feature interviews with top stars to the latest breaking news to the buzz on movies, TV shows, music, and more. She joined PEOPLE in 1995 as one of the very first writers for PEOPLE.com and has previously served as executive editor, senior editor for movies and technology columnist. Samantha is a graduate of Princeton University and author of E-Mail Etiquette; she lives in Brooklyn. People Editorial Guidelines Published on October 16, 2019 10:51 AM Share Tweet Pin Email Antonio Banderas split from Melanie Griffith in 2015 after nearly 20 years of marriage, but the actor will always have love for his second wife. “Melanie is not my wife anymore, but I think she is my best friend,” the Pain and Glory star, 59, tells PEOPLE in this week’s issue. “I love her and will love her until the day I die. She’s my family.” For more on Antonio Banderas, pick up the latest issue of PEOPLE, on stands Friday. Banderas shares daughter Stella, 23, with Griffith, 59, who he says has inherited her parents’ creativity. Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith. Jemal Countess/Getty “She’s a natural writer. She was reading books since she was very little and she loved to be behind the camera and all the attention,” Banderas says. “If you had a second life I would love to just step in there. Maybe my daughter is just my second life.” The two-time Emmy nominee also helped Griffith raise her daughter Dakota Johnson (who she had with her first husband Don Johnson) and son Alexander Bauer (who Griffith had with her second husband Steven Bauer). “I was there because I love their mother and I am totally taken with their mother and they were the most important part of what she came with,” Banderas says. “Very soon they understood that. They called me Paponio, a mixture between Papa and Antonio.” RELATED VIDEO: Antonio Banderas Channeled ‘Solitude & Loneliness’ from Heart Attack for ‘Pain and Glory’ Character Banderas still spends holidays and special occasions with Griffith and all of their children. He describes their early time together as a family as five “beautiful years.” Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith with kids Alexander Bauer, Stella Banderas and Dakota Johnson. Ron Galella Collection/Getty “Melanie decided to stay home when I was working outside the United States to give them the life they deserve to have like everybody else,” he says. “It was not fair for them just to be traveling all around the world. I think now that it was very interesting because they knew other realities.” While Banderas spends most of his time now in London with his girlfriend Nicole Kimpel, “My family is in Los Angeles,” he says. “I love to see them.” Banderas’ new film Pain and Glory is now playing in select theaters.