“It’s the right thing,” Arnold told PEOPLE. “We definitely grew apart. It’s been a rough couple of years.”

By Maria Pasquini
January 24, 2019 04:35 PM
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Tom Arnold is saying goodbye to his Los Angeles home, following news of his divorce.

The True Lies actor, 59, is selling the 5-bedroom, 4.5-bathroom home he shared with his wife Ashley Groussman. He recently announced the couple are splitting after 10 years of marriage.

“It’s the right thing,” Arnold told PEOPLE. “We tried to make it work. It wasn’t a big dramatic thing. It wasn’t all of a sudden. We definitely grew apart. It’s been a rough couple of years.”

Their two-story home, located in Beverly Crest, is currently on the market for $3.85 million, listed with Rachell Rosten of Douglas Elliman.

Since purchasing the home in 2009, Arnold and Groussman have extensively remodeled the property, adding bedrooms upstairs as well as gutting and updating the existing bedrooms and kitchen.

The property’s top floor boasts a massive master suite, with two walk-in closets and a gym.

Douglas Elliman
Douglas Elliman

Downstairs, the home offers a smaller office, a living room with a double-sided fireplace and a spacious family room complete with a wet bar. All of the rooms are filled with colorful pop art and wall coverings, giving the property a cozy and unique feel.

The Los Angeles listing also boasts a sizable kitchen with a center island and eat-in breakfast area perfect for any foodie or amateur chef.

Outside, the backyard holds a saltwater pool, spa, and built-in kitchen area for barbecues.

Douglas Elliman
Douglas Elliman

Arnold confirmed to PEOPLE earlier this week that he and Groussman — who share son Jax, 5, and daughter Quinn, 3 — split, explaining, “It’s not super fun but it’s okay.

“Because I’m a father, I genuinely have the best life I’ve ever had and I’m so grateful to Ashley because I would not be a father if not for her,” he added. “We had many good years together. Everybody has one life. People change. I support her living her life and I don’t want her to feel any guilt and I am very grateful for what we had.”

Tom Arnold and Ashley Groussman
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This was Arnold’s fourth marriage. He was previously married to Shelby Roos (from 2002 to 2008), Julie Armstrong (from 1995 to 1999), and Roseanne Barr (from 1990 and 1994).

Arnold and Groussman, a home organizer, met through mutual friends in April 2008. The two became engaged the following March at Arnold’s 50th birthday party.

“I knew that if I could get Ashley to fall in love with me, I’d never have to worry about anything else as long as I lived,” Arnold wrote on the couple’s weddingchannel.com page back in 2009.

“I’m the luckiest girl in the world!” Groussman added at the time.

More than 75 family and friends attended their November 2009 wedding ceremony at Shep and Renee Gordon’s home in Maui, Hawaii — including actor Dax Shepard, who served as Arnold’s best man.