Hairstylist Kristin Ess Says Brother with COVID Was Put on Ventilator the Day His Son Was Born

The celebrity stylist urged people to get vaccinated after seeing her brother get sick: “Don’t let this happen to you”

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Kristin Ess. Photo: kristin ess/ instagram

Celebrity hairstylist Kristin Ess is urging people to get vaccinated after sharing that her younger brother is now on a ventilator with COVID-19.

Ess, 41, posted "an update" on her brother, who was intubated on the same day that his wife gave birth to their first child.

"Nick is still in critical condition and still on a ventilator," she wrote in her Instagram Stories on Sunday. "Many things are looking better, but the single most important thing is his oxygen, and that's not improving right now. I've been told by my friends who work in various ICUs 'it's a dance' — one day it's a little better, next day it's not so good. We need his lungs to get stronger so he can keep his oxygen levels where they need to be."

The haircare founder said that to be "really honest, we need a miracle."

"Nick is important to SO many people. But there are two people who desperately need him… his wife and his first baby who happened to be born the morning Nick was intubated," she wrote. "His little boy currently sits one floor above him in the NICU. He was only able to see him once for a few minutes on FaceTime."

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Kristin Ess. kristin ess/ instagram

Ess begged people to "please get vaccinated if you're able."

"You guys… don't let this happen to you … I'm fully aware that some people are just never going to get vaccinated," she said. "But for those of you on the fence, please hear me loud and clear… YOU NEVER WANT THIS!!"

"Nick is a healthy 32-year-old man. I assure you, this is happening to real people just like you and me. People who have so much life to live," she continued. "To watch my little brother, a very capable man who never asks for help from anyone, gasping for air while I hold his hand, smile with my eyes and tell him he is going to be okay while holding back the biggest tears and screams of my life… I don't wish that on anyone."

"Delta will take you. it does not discriminate and does not care whether you live in a young, healthy body or not."

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Kristin Ess. kristin ess/ instagram

Ess later reshared responses from three followers who said that her posts pushed either them or their spouse to get vaccinated.

"No matter how this pans out, I have to believe Nick's story is not for nothing," Ess said in response to one.

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She also shared a screenshot of her phone screen and said that "each day I try to call Nick … I talk to him about the day as if it were any other day."

"After I talk to him I sit here and listen to the machines that are keeping him alive. This is as close as I can get to him right now. It's unimaginably painful."

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