Dad Writes Letter to Student Accused of Planning Attack on His Son's High School
"We all get tremendously sad sometimes," Charles Martin says in his letter
After finding out that his son could’ve been in danger, Charles Martin responded by pouring his heart out in a letter that has gone viral.
Martin’s son, Michael, is a freshman at Edmond North High School in Edmond, Oklahoma, where an alleged attack was in the works, according to KFOR.
On Friday, several students notified Edmond police after receiving text messages from the suspect about his plans of a potential mass killing at the high school. This led authorities to search the teen’s home where they found components of explosives and blueprints of his plans.
Martin, 38, didn’t find out about what was going on at his son’s high school until Sunday, when it had already been resolved.
“Whenever you find out your kid could’ve been hurt, your natural response is anger and fear of what could’ve happened,” Martin tells PEOPLE. “But at that point, it made more sense to respond to this with empathy, something that could be constructive.”
That’s just what he did.
He wrote a letter to “the teen who planned to kill my son” and posted it to his small publishing company’s website, Literati Press. The letter received 20,000 views in 12 hours, which ended up crashing his website.
“I had hope to offer and an alternative take that might get me to connect with him and let him know that he’s not alone,” Martin says. “We all have moments where life feels out of our hands and we don’t really see that it’s going to get better. So hopefully my letter will help him see that now.”
The suspect is currently being treated at a mental health facility.
Read Martin’s letter below:
To The Teen Who Planned To Kill My Son:
We found out Friday that you were planning on killing students at Edmond North. The details of your scheme are still not that clear, at least what’s been made public, but it seems you were hoping for a high body count. My son is a freshman at Edmond North. He doesn’t enjoy school either, but he is a bright young man with a beautiful smile and one of the sharpest comedic instincts I’ve ever seen. He tends to insulate himself from the world with his headphones and is obsessed with hip hop. I doubt you know each other since you are sixteen, so presumably a sophomore or maybe a junior. Odds are that you’ve never even crossed paths with my son. Perhaps he would have been safe had you carried out your plan. But perhaps not.
It was the winter that made it so hard, wasn’t it? That’s when you sent the texts to your friends that led them to notify the authorities. It was those damn snow days. The winter always brings me down too, so it’s not just you. We all get tremendously sad sometimes.
We spent those snow days playing board games and sledding down the hills of our neighborhood. You spent your time researching bombs, even starting to assemble one. I wonder what you used. You might have even been at the same hardware store when we got our sled. I wonder if you went sledding too. Maybe we saw you. Maybe I would know you by sight, but probably not.
I have no idea what you are thinking right now. You are being held in a treatment facility, which I think is wise. Charges will be filed, but I am not sure that jail is the right place for you. I want to believe that you texted your friends because you wanted to be caught. You wanted to be stopped. Your friends are heroes. Maybe you felt yourself getting out of control and tipped your hand in hopes someone would stop you, which also makes you a bit of a hero. Maybe. I can’t say for sure since we’ve never spoken nor do I know anything of you aside from what can be found online. Maybe you are a bad person, but it seems you are just angry and desperate. That is understandable. High school is a tough place. It often made me angry and desperate too.
But then it ended and I went to college. Life got better in small measures until I finally reached a place in my life where I became happy and fulfilled. As impossible as it may seem now, you have a chance at that too. As does my son and all the other teenagers who are still alive because you were caught.
Listen to the therapists at the treatment facility. Whatever comes of this situation, please hold onto the hope that you could one day put the darkness behind you. Perhaps, years into the future, you will reach out to a teenager that feels the way you once did and you can help him avoid making horrible decisions with his life. Nothing is guaranteed to make us feel better, but helping other people comes pretty damn close.
Your path forward is going to be complicated and hard, but remember that you are not a killer. You were on a path to become a killer, but your own actions led to my son being alive today. Again, I have no idea if he would have even been in the same part of the building where you executed your plan. Edmond North is a massive complex. But he could have been. The point is irrelevant because you did not have a chance to kill him.
Instead of mourning, my son, his brother, and I are going to have a long, happy spring break. We are going to go climbing, play frisbee, go on a road trip, play board games and video games, discuss music production, and laugh about all the stupid things we always say to each other. He is a wonderful kid. I don’t know you, but I am certain that there is a part of you that is wonderful too. Not executing your plan allows me the freedom to wish the best for you. Had you killed someone, this letter would be much different. I may never meet you, but if I do, I hope that I am strong enough to thank you.
And if I meet your friends, I will be tempted to hug them, but probably won’t because that would make them uncomfortable just as hugging made me uncomfortable when I was a teenager.
I will spend a lot of time discussing this with my boys just as I am sure there (sic) mother has. I need to find Rudderless, a movie made in Oklahoma about a school shooting. It is a powerful film, but my boys haven’t seen it yet. We will then discuss the film. Maybe you should watch it too. It will help you imagine what the lives of your family would be like if you had successfully carried out the attack. Maybe not. Talk to your counselors. Trust them. They know more than I do.
But finally and most importantly, thank you. You reached out to your friends and they made the brave decision to ask for help. A tragedy was averted and, I hope, your life will now start the long journey of getting back to better.http://pshared.5min.com/Scripts/PlayerSeed.js?sid=281&width=480&height=401&playList=518712426
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