Tichina Arnold and Rico Hines Are Divorcing

Tichina Arnold and Rico Hines are ending their marriage, the actress’s rep confirms exclusively to PEOPLE.

The Happily Divorced actress and the former Golden State Warriors assistant coach wed in Hawaii in 2012 in front of 70 guests.

“We both wanted a wedding that was reflective of our personalities and our normal everyday lifestyles – and that is good friends, good food and good fun,” she told Essence at the time.

“It’s a sordid tale,” says a source close to Arnold about the split.

Arnold has one daughter, Alijah Kai, 11, with music producer Carvin Haggins.