The wife of Minnesota Gov.-elect Jesse Ventura has no doubts about her husband’s ability to handle his new job. It’s herself she’s worried about. “I’m worried about how I’ll do a lot more than how he’ll do,” Terry Ventura said. “I’ll be picking up the wrong fork. I’ll be the one tripping down the stairs in her formal gown.” In an interview for “Dateline NBC,” Mrs. Ventura said her reaction to her husband’s upset victory on Nov. 3 was not entirely joyful. “When I saw the big check mark on the TV screen, at one point I went and sat in my mom’s lap and cried,” Mrs. Ventura said. “I was afraid that I don’t know how to do this. I don’t know how — what — to be. My mom said, ‘Just be who you are.'”