Celebrity Madonna Tells Sean Penn, 'I Love You' as They Arrive Together, Hold Hands at His Charity Gala "I want to say Sean, I love you, from the moment that I laid eyes on you," Madonna said at the event, according to Variety By Adam Carlson Published on January 10, 2016 10:20 AM Share Tweet Pin Email Photo: Steve Granitz/WireImage While Sean Penn did not have much to say Saturday night about his just-released bombshell interview with notorious drug lord “El Chapo,” his ex-wife and “good friend” Madonna had a few words for him. “I want to say Sean, I love you, from the moment that I laid eyes on you,” she said in a speech to Penn while attending the Help Haiti Home charity gala in Beverly Hills, California. “I just wish you’d stop smoking cigarettes,” she added. The pair appeared close at Saturday’s event – not for the first time in recent months – as they arrived together and held hands. Penn’s daughter, Dylan, explained it this way in October: “I think he just really admires her work,” she told Entertainment Tonight. “They’re just really good friends and [I think] it’s sweet that they can have this relationship.” Indeed, their tumultuous split some 20 years ago seems forgotten in the face of more recent expressions of support. Penn, 55, attended a September concert during Madge’s Rebel Heart tour, where she performed “True Blue,” a song originally dedicated to him. And in December, Madonna, 57, defended Penn in his defamation suit against film director and Empire creator Lee Daniels, who Penn said had falsely accused him of abusing the pop star. Madonna Surprises Fans With an Intimate Street Performance On Saturday though, Penn was making headlines for reasons nothing to do with his charity work: Hours before the event, Rolling Stone published an interview that Penn conducted in secret with the then-fugitive Joaquén “El Chapo” Guzmé Loera, head of the Sinaloa drug cartel. Guzmén was aggressively pursued by Mexican authorities for six months following his escape from federal prison in July. He was recaptured on Friday. Asked to comment about this piece Saturday, according to Variety, Penn said, “I can’t.” After the event, Penn hosted an after party at The h.Wood Group’s Blind Dragon that drew Patricia and David Arquette, Rosetta Getty and her family and his daughter Dylan Penn. “Sean was in the best mood and didn’t seem to have a trouble in the world,” says an onlooker. If you’d like to make a donation to JP/HRO, check out their website. • Reporting by MATTHEW COLE WEISS