Emmy-winning Joe Massimino, 64, the longtime band leader who worked the piano in the ’60s on “The Mike Douglas Show,” died on May 24 of stomach cancer . . . Neurosurgeon Dr. Petter Lindstrom, 93, who 52 years ago was abandoned by his wife, movie star Ingrid Bergman, in a notorious affair she had with Italian director Roberto Rossellini (whom she eventually married), died in Los Angeles on May 24 . . . John Coolidge, 93, a railroad executive and the oldest living offspring of an American President (Calvin Coolidge, who served from 1923-29), died in Vermont yesterday of respiratory problems.