Engaged for nearly two years, the actress doesn't want the "added pressure" of thinking about a ceremony

By Mark Gray
Updated January 10, 2010 12:05 PM

Carmen Electra and Rob Patterson have been engaged for nearly two years, but don’t look for a wedding any time soon.

“We re happy the way things are,” she told PEOPLE last week at the Swagg VIP Kid Rock Concert at Las Vegas s Hard Rock Hotel. “We re not really putting that added, extra pressure on the relationship.

So will there ever be a wedding between her and the former Korn guitarist? “It s possible,” said Electra, 37, who has been married twice before. “If we decide that, then we will get married, but we re just happy being together.”