The renowned author explains how a little girl dying from a brain tumor stole his heart

By Sam Gillette
December 24, 2019 10:30 AM
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Mitch Albom and Chika
Courtesy Mitch Albom

As the holidays approach, Tuesdays With Morrie author Mitch Albom and his wife Janine can’t help but think about Chika — the little girl who lived in their orphanage in Haiti until a deadly brain tumor sent them on a two-year journey for a cure in the U.S. After a hard-fought battle, Chika died at the age of 7 on April 7, 2017, but that hasn’t stopped them from remaining a family.

In his new memoir, Finding Chika: A Little Girl, an Earthquake, and the Making of a Family, which was released in November, Albom celebrates the child he loved like a daughter. He also shares the enduring lessons she taught him.

“Families are like pieces of art, they can be made from a lot of different substances and they can come together in a lot of different ways. They can be blended, they can be adopted, fostered, traditional,” Albom tells PEOPLE in an interview. “[My wife Janine and I] were in our late fifties and suddenly we had a 5-year-old living at the base of our bed. We were a sudden family, but I think that there are endless ways to make families. The only real ingredient you have to have is love.”

Chika
Courtesy Mitch Albom

Albom first decided to take over the Have Faith Haiti Mission & Orphanage after an earthquake devastated Haiti in January 2010. Albom makes a habit of visiting the orphanage every month, and while he loves and cares for all of the children there (today there are 52 children), Chika stood out to him from the beginning. She came to the orphanage after her mother died giving birth to her brother. Chika was just three years old, but captivated the Alboms with her big personality.

Two years later, when Albom got the call that Chika was sick and needed medical treatment, he quickly brought her to the States. She was eventually diagnosed with a brain tumor and was only given months to live. With the Alboms guiding the way, Chika lived much longer. But the journey wasn’t easy, Albom explains.

“The toughest thing was that so many doctors had just accepted the inevitability of her death,” he says. “And for a parent, whatever we were to her, someone who loves a child, when it’s your child, that is never inevitable. It was unimaginable.”

The orphanage in Haiti
Courtesy Mitch Albom
Courtesy Mitch Albom

Chika eventually lost the ability to walk, but she never lost her spirit. Albom says that one of the biggest lessons he learned from Chika was to prioritize his kids before himself.

“We were sitting at the kitchen table and I popped up because I was late for work. I said, ‘Chika, I got to go,’ ” he remembers. “And she said, ‘No, stay and color with me.’ And I said, ‘Chika, I have to work.’ She said, ‘Mr. Mitch, I have to play.’ I said, ‘Well, it’s not the same because this is my job.’ And she looked at me and she said, ‘No, it isn’t. Your job is carrying me.’ “

Even though Chika died more than two years ago, the Alboms still miss her dearly.

“I miss her spirit, her curiosity,” he says. “I miss the way that she’d yell out the window at the squirrels she saw in the trees because she couldn’t understand why they couldn’t hear her. I miss the way that she would make up lyrics to songs. Then, when we would tell her those weren’t the right words, she’d say, ‘It’s my mouth, I can do what I want.’ “

Albom with two children at the orphanage
Courtesy Mitch Albom
The Alboms with Chika
Courtesy Mitch Albom

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Work at the orphanage has helped ease the ache of loss. Two of Chika’s siblings, her little brother and her older sister, live there now.

“You don’t ever move away from it. You don’t ever escape it. You don’t ever put it behind you,” says Albom of losing Chika. “She just walks alongside us now in a different form. We’re very fortunate in that we have 52 children who are an outlet for the love that we have for Chika.”

He continues: “[One] thing that people don’t always realize when you lose a child: it’s not just the grief that you don’t know what to do with. It’s the love. You don’t know where to send it anymore. You don’t know where to put it.”

Finding Chika is on sale now. All proceeds from book sales will go towards the orphanage.

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