Ulrica Wihlborg

But a source denies the singer gave the boy band the cold shoulder at The Voice
It happened when she was 15 and starring on That '70s Show
"When it's about the kids, it's wonderful," says the actress who is splitting from her husband
The actress hopes that by sharing her story she can help other women going through a divorce
The actress tells PEOPLE about her pain when Peter Facinelli told her he wanted a divorce
"She wasn't willing to expose her personal life anymore," says a source
The singer underwent lap-band surgery in January and has lost 30 lbs. thus far
"There are so many things on the horizon," the Desperate Housewives star tells PEOPLE
The couple break up after dating for about a year, a source confirms to PEOPLE
The kids will stay in California with Camille, and Kelsey will be closely involved, a source tells PEOPLE