The Bachelor says in his final blog he found true love amid "speculation and hate"
"It's a side that I saw throughout the journey that no one else did," the Bachelor says
"Our feelings for each other are real and genuine," Flajnik writes in his latest blog post
Flajnik blogs about the hometown dates and "the most difficult rose ceremony to date"
"My feelings for Courtney are strong," Flajnik blogs. "I don't want to let external forces get in the way"
Flajnik blogs about Puerto Rican dates, saying goodbye and why Nicki's divorce doesn't scare him