“We keep it down to a minimum,” says Trump, who has staff to help with cooking and housework, but no nanny in the traditional sense. “If you have too much help, you don’t get to know your children.”
“I’ve always prided myself on being a good father,” he says, adding that he’s instilled conservative practices in his four older children, Donald Jr., Ivanka, Eric and Tiffany.
“I tell them, ‘No drugs, no alcohol, no cigarettes!’ ” Trump says. “Because if you’re going to start you can’t get off!”
When it comes to raising Barron, Melania says, “I like to be hands-on. I think it’s very important.”
She helps him with his homework (science and math are favorite subjects) and takes him to after-school sports herself.
“Barron is 9 years old. He needs somebody as a parent there, so I am with him all the time. As you know my husband is traveling all the time,” she says.
“Barron loves to be one-on-one with Dad because normally he’s almost always all the time with me,” she says. “So I give them space when it’s Daddy and Barron time. They go alone for dinner, one-on-one. They play golf together. He looks forward to that.”
Trump calls Barron “a very natural athlete. He’s at that age where he’s just starting to learn,” says Trump. “He’s doing a really good job.”
And Barron’s admiration for his father is undeniable. “He likes the way he talks, the way he is,” says Melania. “They have beautiful respect and admiration for each other.”
For much more of our exclusive interview – and at-home photos! – with the Trumps, pick up a copy of the new issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands Friday