Jessica Biel knows life with a toddler is anything but glamorous.
“How many surfaces of your home are covered in what you hope is chocolate?” the host asked.
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And when she finally gets her child to sleep, the actress is not happy with anyone who makes noise that may rouse Silas from his slumber.
“God forbid they wake up in the middle of the night,” Biel says, joking, “You know, if you wake my kid up in the middle of the night by accident, you’re dead to me.”
Of course, it’s usually her partner’s rowdy friends who create a stir. “That’s right,” she jokes. “Not my friends. My friends are quiet, demure, modest. He’s a wild musician.”
To all the dads out there, including mine, who selflessly give their time and love to their families, I appreciate and salute you. And to my beloved husband, my adventure companion, my road dog, who works tirelessly for THIS family and gives of himself energetically and spiritually every day, I am eternally grateful for you and your love. As Silas likes to say, "you are so much cool." I love you to the moon and back. Your adoring wife, Me
“This is terrible, but I’ve heard so much about the ‘three-teens,’ ” Biel explains. “The 3-year-olds are called the ‘three-teens’ because they’re so insane that they’re just like having tiny teenagers, which is way worse than having big teenagers, I think.”
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As a parent, Biel knows how difficult a night out as a family can be. That’s why she is co-owner of a restaurant called Au Fudge in Los Angeles, where parents can enjoy a meal (and a trip to the bar) while their children hang out with an au pair in the restaurant’s “creative space.”
Though things are tough at this age, Biel has nothing but love for her son. “I mean, listen: It’s not all terrible, by the way,” she tells Colbert. “He’s, like, the greatest of all time. Now I’m feeling really bad. He’s cute. He’s funny.”